Let's face it, it is extremely tough to find someone to go out with. Who really likes to dress up every weekend and go out and just sit there waiting for someone to approach you? Most of the time the answer to that question is no one. Nobody should have to over dedicate themselves to dating, if it happens it happens, if not just shrug it off and wait for another opportunity. It is the people that treat dating like a full time job that should have to worry because maybe they aren't all there. Nowadays forget bars and dance clubs, the most convenient way to find love is over the internet.
Look at websites like eHarmony and Match.com. Those websites have generated tons of traffic over the years and claimed that they have matched thousands of couples together to date. Based upon statistics alone, they are telling the truth and more couples have been put together over the internet the last few years than anywhere else. Gone are the days of clubs and bars, now if you want some good food, great lodging, and a romantic date to boot, look no further than the internet to help oblige you.
Every woman or man that goes on the internet looking for love if they have a certain void to fill or are having trouble in the public scene and wanted to try a new route, or maybe they are a single parent insecure about the way they look so they figure being on the internet will show off more of their personality. Whatever the reason, none of them are bad reasons. A woman wants to feel like she's listened to, like she is apart of the conversation. Some women do not even put up a picture on their online profiles simply because they are tired of being looked at and complimented only on their chest and other bodily features. Instead they want to be talked to, asked questions and feel like a person of interest in the conversation. If a guy can do that to a woman over the internet and not present to her that he has a certain agenda in mind, then the guy is basically on his way to good things with her.
When it comes to men, we just not only want to feel important, but we want to vent, we want to get things out and talk and if she listens and offers advice, and does not blow the guy off and is still there after all the personal venting is let out, than she is a keeper as far as us guys are concerned. Yes we have an agenda sometimes, but most of the time believe it or not we want to feel important and that we are heard, and that goes for each gender. Take it from a person who has had success at online dating most of his adult life, I definitely know how to please a woman and make her feel special and will keep her around. Complimenting, honesty and being true to yourself goes a long way for a person online. Do not lie, or present yourself falsely, because a person will be able to sniff it out over time.
Sure they do not have your contact information or your home address, but be careful because you never know who can hack into what online. Also, if you lie, the truth will come out eventually because you will forget later on what you had said previously and it will work against you. Build trust over time, be honest and invite him or her into your personal life one step at a time, and that same openness will be rewarded in the future with a relationship. If that same person is still there after you have said your peace and told mostly everything about yourself, than they deserve to be in your life and you'll know a winner when you see one. Good luck and stay true to yourself and you'll become successful overtime at online dating.
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